Like fuck me guys...... i think im turning ito one of these things... what to do, what to do??? i thought aboout bleaching but im light enough.... dillemma dillemma....
its kinda scary though, it happens earlier and ealier in young black women. We face one of two disappointments relationship wise and its the end of the world
(sips orange juice). i wouldnt say i am completely bitter yet, i got at least
4 more major disappointments until i get there. Like for instance the
typical bitter black woman has children, and has never been married always been a girlfriend as opposed to a wife,
or has children, once upon a time been a wife, but her husband has moved on and started a new family, and seems to be happy, and she is able to see this. its ashame, this happens so often, what do we have to do as young black women to prevent this happening??
ok im
ONLY 20 but when speaking to a guy i like, im already thinking about whether i could marry him and would our children be cute, way too much planning ahead, i guess you have to handle whats in front of you rather than whats 5 years ahead.
Everyone wants that perfect family and
white wedding, but is planning from now that big mistake? i know every girl has had that convo with a member of the opposit sex about baby names, and how you intend on dressing your child, but why?? do you feel these things will happen over night, or are we that bored that we just wana talk on the phone... its kinda sad...
Another thing, women always think back on the past, so do men lol they jus pretend like they dont, but when something goes wrong within their current relationship, they always think back to an old flame, and try to compare them,
WE NEED TO STP DOING THAT...... because if your ex was so great and perfect for you, you'd still have him.
Ima stop babbling, but my black sisters... lets stop being bitter.. its not cool, its not sexy... its not 21st century-ish... i love you all, and its time to love urself...
